MamaBlogger365 – In Honor of Heroes by Shira Adler, Diva Mama
On an impossibly perfect early September Monday ten years ago, the lives of all Americans were marred by a shocking display of evil perpetrated by fanatics, igniting a war on terror that still rages today. I can still remember that fateful day as though it were yesterday. But it wasnʼt yesterday, it was a decade ago…
My daughter was eight months old, and all I could do was watch the news in horror, hugging and rocking my baby girl in my arms, tears falling helplessly on her Classic Pooh-themed Onesie.
But today, as we remember our fallen brothers and sisters, I am reminded that we can find todayʼs heroes in the most unlikely of places; yes, the world is still full of them, and sometimes you donʼt have to look far to ﬁnd them.
This weekend I had the pleasure of officiating a perfectly divine Jewish-Hindu wedding in New England. Exploring the magniﬁcent countryside prior to the service my honey and I stopped by a newly renovated luxury hotel in Watch Hill near Westerly, RI, where we humorously observed what seemed to be an abundantly full croquet ﬁeld. I noticed that the collared polo-shirt wearing motley crew swarming the ﬁelds included a plethora of happy and hearty white-shirted volunteers wearing initialed visors and yellow-tagged lanyards.
One doesnʼt often stumble upon croquet ﬁelds, much less croquet tournaments, but this wasnʼt just a haphazard occasion and the players were anything but typical tournament types; they were members of SONK, the Special Olympics of New Kingston, Rhode Islandʼs ﬁrst Special Olympics croquet contingency. And a more proud group you have never encountered.
After a brief conversation with a couple of volunteers, two players joined us for more chit-chat and some photos. One, a dark haired young woman with a wide smile commented on how much she liked my crystal necklace – an amethyst & smoky quartz combination, and I explained that the stone held some special properties. Her face beaming, she grabbed my hand before pulling out a chain that lay hidden by her t-shirt to reveal her own silver wire-wrapped crystal.
“Me, too… I wear this one and it helps me, too.”
As a longtime advocate of on and beyond the spectrum children, I was moved beyond words. Her innocent exuberance touched me so deeply and I felt more than a connection, I felt a deep humbleness that she shared her special “good luck charm” – the symbol that helps her when she is afraid, uncertain or alone.
And the quiet strength of the volunteers who ﬂanked this young woman, and all of the other players; these amazing human beings who so lovingly give of their free time, hearts and minds, in that moment, were beautiful reminders that there is inherent bravery in each of us.
On the anniversary of 9/11 it was this kind of selﬂess bravery that reminded me a hero is anyone who chooses to face adversity, overcome challenges and live the fullest, most joyful life possible. As all of us turn back and remember the pain of a decade ago, it is nice to be able to look to today, to see where our indomitable human spirit has taken us.
God bless the Special Olympics, and God bless America.
Bio: By day Shira Adler is a cantor, spiritual vocalist, certified pastlife regressionist, voice-over artist, producer, performer, writer/blogger and mompreneur and by night… well, she is actually the same person at night though she does admit to wearing fuzzy socks when no one can see her and hiding a secret stash of Mallomars somewhere near her writing desk for those late night pick-me-ups. In, around, and between her various work activities, she is raising two beyond-the-spectrum children as a single mom (though lovingly gives a shout out to her best friend, editor and soulmate whom she considers the bees knees). Is it any wonder her website’s tag line is One Voice Many Paths? Seriously, look up the definition of a multi-tasking Mama and you will find her picture there. But when it comes to living a life of connection, faith and consciousness Shira is the gal to call — or if you’re fresh out of Mallomars — she’s always happy to give you one. For more information visit: ShiraAdler.com, read her blog at Diva-Mama.com; Social: Twitter (1DivaMama), Facebook (DivaMama1), Tumblr (not really sure, but the name is cute) and LinkedIn (because doesn’t everyone?).
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